Exploring
The Kinky Subtle Body
Exploring with a tantric and spiritual approach
Hot fantasies and horny images can drive our scenes, but contact with the true nature of whats happening can touch the soul.
There is no “right way” to do kink play. In any style you play, exquisite attention that senses essence qualities is the best guide to a wonderful scene.
Letting go of ideas of how it should be or looks gives room for getting curious and present.
The concepts presented here are not meant to complicate but to point to the heart of the matter.
It’s about fun, pleasure, and letting go.
Talk About Abusive Kink
It Will Happen Less
Talk About When Kink is Abusive
It Will Happen Less
Physical, mental, or spiritual injury from abuse can be devastating!
Community denial and victim blaming hinders healing and isolates the person at the moment support is needed most.
Don’t let our brothers and sisters lose their ability to find fulfilling kink and connection with community.
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Kink PTSD is more common than you would expect. It’s the difficulty a person has playing with vulnerability and surrender after that trust was disrespected. Whether it was callousness, a consent accident or inexperience, the hurt is the same. This experience can activate memories from past traumas that may not be understood when it happens. Frequently those having difficulty with a Kink experience are blamed or marginalized. Reaching out for help can be a difficult thing to do. If you are having emotional or physical or spiritual injury after BDSM/Kink, it is not your fault, you are not alone, Remember it is not your fault, you deserve support.
Lost your kink play, lost your community, but still kinky? Now What?
Introducing Psychodrama for those affected by abuse in BDSM/Kink