HealthyShadow.Org is launching a conversation. This page is not complete in topics or descriptions at the time of launching. Each subject is a valuable inquiry that will unfold in time.
This page is not about BDSM/Kink techniques. It is about concepts promoting the development of curiosity about the subtle qualities of connection between players that make a scene SOAR.
- The Sacred Nature of this Play.
- Subject Subject consciousness while playing with erotic objectification, degradation role-play.
Subject/Subject Consciousness, is a concept developed by Harry Hay, the founder of the Radical Faeries. This is to a style of relationship of mutual respect and empathy for the other. Subject/Object dynamics are between people where the one in power, dehumanizes objectectifies and treats the other as subordinate. We sometimes play with the latter erotically. When objectifying a submissive, bottom or slave, remember, you are doing that to have a hot scene. That power exchange is to rock each others world. Thats done with mutual respect for the well being of the other.
- Making Contact.
- Sohbet. A sufi concept of mystical communication.
- The stream of experience.
- Handcuffs are a mudras.
- Piercing the psychic shell.
If you go very deep inside yourself, you’ll see that what you take yourself to be is not real. One way of experiencing this is feeling that you are an empty shell, with nothing of any significance inside. The ego identity, the core of the personality with a sense of self, can be directly felt as a dry, empty shell. When you see through the personality shell and become aware of the emptiness inside, you become aware of the sense of meaninglessness, worthlessness and the insignificance. We usually feel this emptiness in vague ways, rather than directly. Diamond Heart Book III A.H Amass
- Scale the experience out of generosity.
- Non-attachment to your plans.
- Inquiry
- Curiosity
- Courage
- Will
The characteristics of solidity, groundedness, immovability, and confidence are the characteristics of Will on the Being level. In fact, we find that support of any kind is always connected in essential experience to Will. The Point of Existence p.260 A.H.Almass
- Strength
- Power
- Consent is ongoing, get the first NO.
- Turn on your perspective self.
- Negotiating intensity is a dance.
- The dials of compassion, tolerance, dominance.
- The Balance of how much dominance, how much submission.
- Essence
- Breath
- Jen
Jen Rooted in the political, ethical and social; a Chinese Confucian term meaning to effort to do the right thing for your family, tribe, community. Human-heartedness, Humanity,Benevolence and care towards others; deep empathy for others; it is an quality sought in community leaders.
- Sohbet; A sufi concept of mystical communication.
- Suchor
- Holding space.
- Phenomenology, and the felt sense.
- Qualia
- Non-conceptual
- Non-linear
- A gentle touch penetrates deeper; how cornstarch can teach that.
- Joy, Strength, Will, Compassion
- Neuro-biology mechanics.
- The green zone that turns into gold.
- The barrier of idealizations and images.
- Tolerating undefended helplessness.
- Hope, desire and rejection; the egoic cycle.
- The healing power of pleasure.
- The principals of Tantra.
- The chakras and a spiral model of connecting
The Chakras
